It's always terrific to get questions - it helps me keep the blog going.
Well, I'd first ask what is really at the core of the anger. Are they pissed off that you jacked off, pissed off that you jacked off together, or pissed off that you jacked off to guys jacking off? Or maybe it's all three?
Guys jerk off - your wives should know that; it's no secret, right? I mean they know you masturbate, don't they?
Married guys still jack off.
Does it matter to them whether you stroke it alone or sitting beside your brother? Brothers who masturbate together in their teens is very common - especially if they shared a bedroom.
It was something they enjoyed together then, why should it stop?
That you surfed male masturbation...well, here's the thing: Guys, no matter sexual orientation, find the erect penis to be arousing. If you pay attention to straight porn, the camera pretty much stays focused on the guy - and especially when they get to the "money shot." Seeing that hard cock spew is the pay-off.
Hitting websites that goes right to the point shouldn't be much cause for concern, if that's what bothers your wives.
So, no matter which of the above reasons is why they're pissed off, you've really done nothing odd or out of the ordinary. Let's see what my readers have to say.
What say you, folks?
10 comments:
you're right!!!
If they are giving their wives as much sex as they want, what is the problem? All men masturbate, married or not! Having a friend to masturbate with is very nice, and sometimes it can develop into mutual masturbation, which it even better. Sexual orientation is a continuum and we all fit in somewhere along the line. That these two men should feel at ease naked together is a very good sign.
I think you gave some great answers. Look at the core of the anger and go from there. Thanks for all you do, bro. SOOOOO Awesome to have you back. Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM
It's the same old thing...over and over. Tell them guys jack off, and together sometimes. Get over it tell them, or next time give it to them good. Next question is, if these guys are doing this, are there partners not giving them enough attention???????
If your reader's brother was expecting their reaction, no problem, he obtained the desired result.
If those who are pissed off are pissed off, this proves that they are not on the same wavelength. Usually, in this case their reaction was predictable.
To lower the tension, they can promise not to do it again or they can invite them to do as them.
They can also seek a separation or divorce.
Sorry, it is difficult to give a good advice when we have difficulty to believe in so much stupidity, even if they were drunk.
Love, hugs and bisous my darlings Jean and Pat.
Common problems in any relationship. Why why why why why... Always gets asked but never answered or they dont like the answer they get.
Males will jerk off no matter what. Regardless of the amount of sex or none. Sex is an activity. Jerking off is an activity too. They are just things to do. Love has nothing to do with it.
As if girls arent going to town on themselves. Dont act all self righteous when a guy does it when you know damn well your doing the exact same thing. Probably not with your friends but you know your putting in some work yourself.
My first thought is that the writer should be happy his brother didn't let on that the cocks they were stroking weren't always their own! (:
Were the wives jealous they didn't get to watch? They should be glad the boys weren't after stray girls!
Like the old video said-- "Brothers Should Do It!"
--Paul
When I lived outside NYC back in the mid-90's, I found an online JO hook-up site on the bulletin boards (pre-Grindr or Tumblr). I met a LOT of straight guys that just wanted to jerk off together - no touching, no sucking or licking. Just watch each other stroke to cum. Frankly, it was boring. I was gay, I wanted cock, not just the tease.
I DID have a young thing that connected with me as part of a larger "beer-buddy" group. It started innocently with playful gropes during a nightly roadside piss stop. He was "straight" and engaged to be married, but over about a two year period, every time we found ourselves alone (and he ALWAYS found a way for us to be alone from the group), he wanted to get naked, start jerking off, and then into more intense man-on-man action. But that is a story for another blog.
Sorry, I couldn't help but laugh a little after reading that question... :D
Well, different strikes for different folks, so to speak. But yeah, this is something you really should be honest about.
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