I had to chuckle… A guy in his mid-twenties writes in to another blogger stating, as far as he’s concerned, being in your 40’s is OLD and out-of-touch. His rant went on to explain that, just because he and his friends suck each other’s cocks they “are not teetering on the verge of homosexuality;” rather they are FWB’s (Friends With Benefits, or as we used to call them in the “old days” Fuck Buddies) and all of us old assholes should google that and learn something.
I’ll give him the “homo” rant – because I totally agree that just because a couple of guys get together once in a while and jack off or suck dick does not automatically put you into the realm of gay. Human sexuality is much more complicated than that and, in spite of his youthful enthusiasm, he’s at least learned that.
No, it’s the “old” part I had to laugh about. You certainly can’t get angry because, in my youth, thoughts like that ran through my head – as it did for all of my buddies. In fact, we all thought we’d better use our cocks as much as possible - wherever and whenever we could, because we knew they wouldn’t be working any longer when we hit our 40’s.
We’re here as living proof that getting older does not mean a dead dick. In fact, it means we’ve learned to get much more enjoyment out of them than when we were young and horny walking around with perpetual hard-on’s. And not every old guy needs Viagra (or an equivalent) to get his cock to stand at attention. But, of course, you won’t convince the youngsters of today any more than our elders convinced us.
I can’t remember the name of the classic song, but the lyrics go like this: “…youth is wasted on the young…” Instead of hitting an ages-old classic rant, this kid should try matching his cocksmanship with the sword-fighting ability of a more mature guy. I can pretty much guarantee he’d find his pud-pulling, sucking prowess lacking in comparison.
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yeah, some of these rants from younger guys give me a sad feeling.
one thing they really need to learn from older guys is, what are the health habits that will enable them to still get extraordinarily excited by their dick, when they're over [insert age here]?
the other thing that bothers me is that i suspect many of these guys who get into rants, grew up in dysfunctional familes. maybe with an authoritarian father who was a total fuck-up, maybe with a parent who substituted religion for common sense, maybe with a single parent (probably mom) because dad was a turd, or maybe even in a foster home. they never had a model for an older person who was loving, helping, and properly firm WRT discipline, so they think all older people are pricks.
In America there is plenty of discrimination to go around. The undercurrent of cloaked racism is annoying. The separation of disabled people into "the other" is alarming. The nastiness from politicians who want to push the economically disadvantaged to the wall, is inexcusable. what is the point in adding age discrimination to all these other problems?
if these guys are unable to admire oldsters such as the Dalai Lama - too bad for them.
This is an interesting topic. There is a generational difference between guys sexually, probably just like there is in other areas. Looking back on my own sexual maturity I guess I would say that the big differences between now and when I was younger are (1) when I was young I thought that "good sex" was more related to the frequency that I was getting it whereas now I am more interested in the quality of the sex that I have as opposed to frequency; and (2) I think I am more respecteful of making sure that my partner is enjoying it as much as I am and I have found that I get pleasure from pleasing my partner, compared to when I was younger and it was all about getting myself off. Younger guys could learn a lot from older guys, and it's too bad we don't have more inter-generational sexual activity between us really. For males, our penises are like musical instruments, and the longer you have been playing it (your own plus others is even better), then the better you are. When you see how young guys act sexually sometimes, you can see why so many women think that all men are assholes. Perhaps the fact that I am bi and have dated men myself makes me more aware of this; don't know. Just some thoughts.
Anon: Discrimination buried in the lad's commentary? Perhaps. I think it was more the ignorance of youth than anything else. But you are certainly correct in saying there is plenty of discimination in the US to go around. The society is buried in bias!
Rubio: Ha! Another astute observation! I never put that together; women think men are assholes because we're so obsessed with our dicks and our own satisfaction.
Could the craze of instant gratification and the Me Generation be an extention of so many guys [finally] admitting to jacking off, alone and in groups? Or is it the other way round? LOL.
The age thing has always made me laugh. As someone who has dated guys older than myself on almost all occasions, most of whom were in the 39 or over range (I only include 39 because he was right on the 40 year old cusp you talk about), I get a lot of surprised looks. Once, I have been asked by a man that I dated whether I had been spoiled by him, and was told by an older aunt that I WOULD be spoiled by the time something goes sour between my current boyfriend and I. Of course, these are more in reference to personality and treatment (sexually or otherwise) but I suppose she's right. As for age being an issue, I (in my twenties) have trouble keeping up with the 58 year-old I share a bed with and he does NOT use any sort of supplement.
Rubio, you are quite correct. Like I said earlier, I realized my mistake when dating younger boys (and no matter the age, I consider those who have sex more for frequency than quality to be boys) and have stuck to older men for multiple reasons than just the sex.
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