Friday, September 30, 2016

Too Much Lube?

Another question recently sent by a straight dude.

"I'm in my early 20s and have been married for a couple of years now. My wife gets really wet during sex. I mean excessively wet. We put a towel under her and it gets soaked very quickly. Then add that I'm a pretty heavy leaker, myself. My pre-cum flows like a faucet left on constant drip. But, here's the problem. There's zero friction on my penis. I don't feel anything. Then she gets aggravated because it's takes me too long to cum. Meanwhile I get frustrated because I need to ejaculate and can't. I get so desperate that I pull out, wipe off my cock, and jack off. She feels bad, and I'm tired of shooting my load all over her, or on myself, instead of being able to cum inside her like a normal guy. So, what can we do? Is there anything that will help us?"
Well, this poses a problem for guys. While many medical sites do note that most women encounter the exact opposite (too dry), this isn't really uncommon either. The typical suggested solution is to keep a towel handy to occasionally wipe off your cock, but that interrupts the fun. Another suggestion was to have her keep a tampon handy to soak up and dry out, but that also brings the fun to a halt.

Men need the friction. It's that simple. Too much lubrication just dulls everything. When we are young and beginning to masturbate, we do so without any lube at all.
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That's part of the reason we cum so quick when we begin to "dip our wicks" with the ladies. And, then we continue to jack off dry.
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If we do use lube we use it fairly sparingly.
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A couple medical websites have suggested the use of OTC non-drousy allergy or cold medications, such as Claritin or Benadryl, and couples have reported a measure of success. These meds dry up sinus, but they also dry up other mucus membrane tissue - which is why when a man takes them he produces less semen. She should take one a couple of hours before sex to allow it to work.

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You also need to have a very frank discussion with your wife. We can understand her aggravation, but she must learn to understand your need to ejaculate.
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To not do so will result in a lot of pain and discomfort for you with a sever case of blue balls.
And the swelling and aching can last for days
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until they're relieved.
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If the OTC meds don't work, I'd suggest that once she's reached orgasm you switch to jacking off
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(she could offer to help, BTW, with a bit of hand and mouth stimulation).
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But, in a total switch from the old rhythm method of contraception, hover over her until you know you're about to shoot, then plunge back in. That would at least provide you with the finish you crave.
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But, either way, remember that ejaculation is important to your health - both mental and physical.
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Have a great weekend, everyone.

Thursday, September 29, 2016

Naked, As Always

I have been without any internet connection all morning; and visiting the other blogs and posting is typically the first thing accomplished. Construction nearby has been going on for almost a year and cable interruptions have been frequent, though usually brief.
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They finally fixed the problem about 15 minutes ago. The result is that I must make this a quick post to resume the chores of my day. Naked, as always.
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Of course, there will be a coffee break in there somewhere, and a bit of lunch.
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If it warms up a bit, the pool needs attention.
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Leaves and other debris from the squalls that blew through last night need to be cleaned up before they end up in the pool.
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And then a bit of a rest before I need to get started on dinner.
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Then get cleaned up
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Have a good day - what remains of it...

Wednesday, September 28, 2016

How Does Ejaculation Work / Cum Pain

The fact that readers are asking more questions says something about their trust in the things I post. I do research on any given subject before I write anything about it.
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Not so for other popular blogs. One in particular - I refuse to name names - is an almost daily offender in delivering inaccurate information. Sometimes it's out and out made-up bullshit. He dupes people into thinking he knows what he's talking about by using labels like "bulbocavernosus muscles."  The term is bulbospongiosis, the muscle of the perineum covering the bulb (or very root) of the penis. It is this muscle we exercise with Kegels to strengthen erectionsUnfortunately thousands of men and women read his blog on a daily basis and are duped into believing what he writes is accurate.
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One such recent instance is "pre-ejaculation chamber" at the base of the penile shaft that "fills with semen until it can't hold any more," and triggers "the point of no return and ejaculation." There's no such thing, folks; it's a piece of male anatomy he invented.  Here's the truth:

"The journey begins in the ejaculatory ducts, located within the prostate gland. This location is where semen collects during sexual activity. When your arousal reaches its highest level, your body experiences a spinal reflex. [Note: it has nothing to do with the amount of semen collected.] This reflex causes spasms throughout the muscles in your prostate, urethra and penis, and these spasms propel the semen outward."
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If I've attached the correct one, here's a very short clip of how ejaculation works.


Another question from one of his followers about painful, burning sensations when he cums, states he's been tested and is clear of any STD, and asks if this is normal or if it's "just him."
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The blogger fires back glibly, telling the reader it's not normal so it must be him, as if it's not a serious question. It is. Ruling out any STD, it could be any number of medical issues: Urethritis (inflammation of the urethra); Prostatitis (inflammation of the prostate (bacterial, chronic, or asymptomatic); Orchitis, inflammation of one or both testicles, vas deferens, seminal vesicles; Blockage, a blockage anywhere within the route of seminal travel; Prostate Cancer; an allergic reaction to spermicides or contraceptive jellies or creams. It could even be a reaction to antidepressant medication.
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If you notice any pain, or a burning sensation when you pee
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or when you cum
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or even after you cum
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you need to go see a doctor.
And, please, be aware that the internet contains a lot of misinformation.
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Thanks for allowing me to get that off my chest.



Tuesday, September 27, 2016

Passed Out While Pissing

It's such a common, normal thing we all do, right? Waking in the middle of the night to take a piss,
He woke, quite groggy, from a deep sleep needing to pee. As explained to his dad: he walked to the bathroom, his boner dissipated (though it took some prodding to get his son to admit he had a boner).
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He stood in front of the toilet and pissed...
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passed out and hit the floor like a ton of bricks, breaking his two front teeth and lower jaw, and gashing his right cheek and forehead.
Medical sites, like Mayo Clinic, say it's uncommon and happens mostly to older guys. It's a sudden drop in blood pressure. The medical term is micturition syncope.The exact cause isn't really known, but it's thought to be the vasodilation (opening) of the blood vessels when standing and urinating
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which results in a sudden loss in blood pressure. Though the medical community says it's uncommon, I believe it happens more than they realize. It's happened to me, my father-in-law, and own father and brother. Though the medical community also says it happens mostly to older guys, it has happened to my brother-in-law, and one of my nephews. All resulting in nothing more than a few bruises and, in my own case, an elbow busted a hole in the drywall next to the toilet. But, in the case I cited above, this was the late-teen son of one of my wife's co-workers.

There can be underlying causes; dehydration, excessive alcohol, hunger, fatigue, use of alpha blockers for BPH (enlarged prostate) which is why it happens mostly to older men), or other underlying medical conditions.

Two things you can do to avoid injury: 1. Don't get out of bed too fast; sit on the side for a minute or so and move your legs to get the blood pumping through your body. 2. In the middle of the night, sit down to pee.
When waking up needing to pee? Sit!
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The number of issues we solely face as men are numerous. If we'd discuss them we could save others a lot of trouble and pain. Put away the embarrassment of your cock.
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Talk with your buddies when you hear about something like this - or if something happens to you. Spread important information.